{"id":127,"date":"2020-06-14T23:06:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T23:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/?p=127"},"modified":"2022-06-27T16:14:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T16:14:36","slug":"crossed-sticks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/heroes\/crossed-sticks\/","title":{"rendered":"Crossed Sticks"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>For some strange reason, I have a strong connection to the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dignitymemorial.com\/funeral-homes\/los-angeles-ca\/pierce-brothers-westwood-village-memorial-park-and-mortuary\/4798?utm_source=google_my_business&amp;utm_medium=organic\" target=\"_blank\">Pierce Brothers Westwood Village Memorial Park<\/a>.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a gem of a cemetery in the middle of Downtown L.A surrounded by high rises.\u00a0 What a final resting place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We placed my nephew&#8217;s ashes there.&nbsp; My ex-wife&#8217;s parents&#8217; ashes are there.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve been there many times.&nbsp; Fascinating place.&nbsp; Almost hallowed ground.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They have an inordinate number of celebrities buried there.&nbsp; The list is long (<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pierce_Brothers_Westwood_Village_Memorial_Park_and_Mortuary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">you can look it up<\/a>): Marilyn Monroe, Mel Torm\u00e9, Natalie Wood, Bob Crane, Walter Matthau, Eddie Albert, Darryl, F Zanuck, Cornel Wilde, Donna Reed, Sammy Cahn, and on and on.&nbsp; Touring Pierce Brothers Westwood is like walking down the Hollywood Walk of Fame.&nbsp; Only quieter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Crazy story about Marilyn Monroe: her burial site is behind a large marble slab on a wall, tucked into a quiet, out of the way corner of the cemetery.&nbsp; The slab is covered with lip prints.&nbsp; Fans come every day to kiss the marble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Marilyn&#8217;s grave is marked.&nbsp; The one next to it isn&#8217;t.&nbsp; There is an urban legend that Hugh Hefner bought the space next to Marilyn&#8217;s.&nbsp; I guess that&#8217;s nice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One day, I was reviewing the various columbaria (for several reasons&#8230;see above).\u00a0 I looked down at the floor and there was a small vase with two cross drumsticks in it.\u00a0 It was September 30.\u00a0 I looked up at the tarnished brass plaque on the marble wall:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Buddy-Rich-One-Of-A-Kind-Westwood-Pierce-Brothers-Cemetery.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"254\" height=\"92\" src=\"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Buddy-Rich-One-Of-A-Kind-Westwood-Pierce-Brothers-Cemetery.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-129\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">BUDDY RICH<br>ONE OF A KIND<br>1917-1987<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(also check out my other Buddy Rich post, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/uncategorized\/if-looks-could-kill\/\">&#8220;If Looks Could Kill&#8221;<\/a><\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Buddy_Rich\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Buddy Rich on Wikipedia<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For some strange reason, I have a strong connection to the Pierce Brothers Westwood Village Memorial Park.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a gem<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":129,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","footnotes":""},"categories":[10,3,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-allposts","category-heroes","category-music"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=127"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1040,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127\/revisions\/1040"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.smartreis.com\/123repete3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}